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Razorblade Kiss
26-07-2005, 02:31
..sex in a relationship?
Is very important? or is it just "there"?
Well personally I think it's not important.
As long we're having a good time and know when we wanna do it's all good. ^_^
The last thing a relationship needs is pressure concerning something as trivial as sex.
What are your opinions?
~UltimateGamer~
26-07-2005, 07:00
it is and it is not important. If you really like the girl and respect her it is not at all, but if you are just looking for a good time then it is XD
Depends what the people want. And if they're a nymphomaniac or not (if I spelt that right...)
I can't really say if it is or it isn't, considering I've not had much luck with love.
Brindley
26-07-2005, 11:41
Sex? Not important at all, it's just something to do, feels good, and is spontaneous.
Making Love? I think that is very important, it shows a mutual trust and respect between the couple. I think that a relationship is more likely to last longer if there is physical love shared as well as emotional.
I think it is important for the simple reason that sex can be a big part of relationships.
Okay, so I've never been in love and cant speak from experience - but yeah, i still think it is.
However, in a couple love each other more than anything else and would do anything for each other and all that jazz I really cant be arsed to type then its not important really, is it? Theres so much more to relationships than sex.
Sex is like.......a bonus. Physical love is very important. But still, its like another way to express their love. I've confused myself now. O.o
yeah but kids these days do it out of pleasure and then dumping them.
not everyone is like that.
My views on this have basically always been the same, and I doubt they will change. Sex is overrated by the media, very much so. It is not half as important or magical as they make it appear. Sure, it's a sign (well, in my opinion, at least should be ) that you and your partner truly love one another that you would want to be so intimate, but that's all it is. It is not needed to keep a relationship stable, in my opinion. If the relationship is not capable of remaining stable without sex, then there wasn't really true love to begin with, in my eyes.
Not half as important as they make it out to be.
True, cause basicly, your wife will look like you when you are 70 years old lol, most of us are ignorant to go for the looks.
It all depends on how othe relationship is. To some poeple sex is important. To others not so much. If it is important in a relationship people should have a happy sex life where they fulfil each other, if not you're patner will find someone who does. If your relationship doesn't rely on sex then thats also good, but it may be you're not as close to your partner as maybe you could be. I believe it varies from person to person, depends on what we desire, what we need, all people are different like that.
fact, the bigger the penis, the more unfaithful you are, thats why gorillas have small penis cause they are faithful to others. its the species thing, humans are made to be unfaithful i think in general. Discovery channel i saw that one
~UltimateGamer~
27-07-2005, 06:12
fact, the bigger the penis, the more unfaithful you are, thats why gorillas have small penis cause they are faithful to others. its the species thing, humans are made to be unfaithful i think in general. Discovery channel i saw that one
That is a great prespective. As long as human kind exist their will always be unfaithfulness.
Thats an nteresting perspective.
Now lets look at unfaithful women, I don't know about you but if a woman was having an affair with me I'd prefer for her to not have a penis.
Sixthcrusifix
31-07-2005, 07:46
Actually it's more of a neusence (spelling?) to me. You're always pressured to be in the mood and always attracted and you never know when people will want it. I don't ave time for sex, I hardly even think about it, and considering I'm a guy it's strange. But I guess I'm just so goal oriented I banished off of my list of important things to do. :P
~Manick~
23-08-2005, 13:37
Theres a popular expression for this, "Once you pop, you just can't stop." lol... Um...
Well, my answer would have to be, alot of younger couples are sex-based, and alot of them are love also, but alot of them couldn't survive on love alone... Sex will always play an important part in young couples, because not only is that when men are at the peak sexual age (around 19-21), but both sides of the relationship has needs, and if not fulfilled, the relationship can break, and they will go looking elsewhere.
But mostly, people view young couples as messing around. And that no one should be chained down too young... Kinda sucks for the people who are in a serious relationship at a young age, and never get taken seriously...
Sex isn't ALL its made out to be, sure its nice and its great to be with that special someone in that way. BUT people blow it way out of proportion. But im gonna stop there because people will tell me im ruining their thoughts of what its gonna be like lol.
But no sex is in no way important in a relationship, and even if you're a nympho if you love the other person you wouldn't NEED sex for the relationship to work.
I have to agree here, it gets me how sex drives has heighten in the passed years, in order to heighten pleasure in a relationship, but sex is sex, you dont need it to live, it is just another add on to life...
Or thats my thoughts anyways :P
Y'see... I think it is important, solely on the basis of trust.
Because... in my eyes anyway... for a couple to have sex is more than just a sign of love, its a sign of trust. And that they trust the other one enough to go through with it. Myself, I wouldn't just have sex 'for the hell of it' and 'because I can'. I would only do it if I trust the other person completely, and love them.
Sooooo in short Trust+Love.
Which is also where I go wrong in relationships, because I build up that trust, and then when I finally ask them out I get a 'no' because 'you're too good a friend'
And that ****ing hurts! GRR!
*pouts*
meh, take it or leave it. (although i'll admit i'd rather take it) its not the be all and end all, in fact, i think men give up trying once they get what they want lol.
Dale Anthony
25-08-2005, 09:15
Y'see... I think it is important, solely on the basis of trust.
Because... in my eyes anyway... for a couple to have sex is more than just a sign of love, its a sign of trust. And that they trust the other one enough to go through with it. Myself, I wouldn't just have sex 'for the hell of it' and 'because I can'. I would only do it if I trust the other person completely, and love them.
I agree with that. Too many young couples lose their virginity just for the fun of it and it pees me off. In my personal opinion you only have sex with someone if you totally love them and completely trust them. Otherwise, you're gonna eventually end up meeting someone who's still a virgin, and they won't be happy because you'll be well to experienced and they won't feel like you belong to them.
I'm saying that from my point of view, cause I've been single for life and still a virgin and I don't really wanna end up with someone who's been through it all. First time around anyway.
At Leeds, sex seemed to be the only thing people were ... doing ... this tent right by us did NOTHING but have sex... *shudders*... and most people didn't even KNOW the person they were with...
I've just had a sense of deja vu... typing this... meh...
I didn't get drunk, stoned or have sex at Leeds. I am proud of myself.
Dale Anthony
01-09-2005, 02:07
I seriously can't listen to people go on about sex because I've never had it before. And like I said, I'd only go through it with someone who's a virgin and who I love. That way, I'd know it was real.
Sex is good only if you really honestly truly love each other and are going to put rings on each others fingers one day. I came close to doing it but didn't which is a good thing, came to my senses just in time.
I hate people just looking for sex and nothing else, there's no point to being with anyone if your like that.
Dale Anthony
03-09-2005, 11:38
Sex is good only if you really honestly truly love each other and are going to put rings on each others fingers one day. I came close to doing it but didn't which is a good thing, came to my senses just in time.
I hate people just looking for sex and nothing else, there's no point to being with anyone if your like that.
I didn't know this thread had been updated, so sorry I'm late. But I totally agree with what Strider just said.
Personally, I'm a strong believer that a lot of people these days are just looking for sex which annoys me, as it narrows it down as to finding someone who you are gonna actually end up with. Now I've never been kissed, let alone came close to having sex, so I guess I could take that as a good thing.
Sex is good only if you really honestly truly love each other and are going to put rings on each others fingers one day. I came close to doing it but didn't which is a good thing, came to my senses just in time.
I hate people just looking for sex and nothing else, there's no point to being with anyone if your like that.
Cho baka... came close *whacks* too close if ya ask me. SEX, if you ain't married dont do it, leads to too many problems yo.
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